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Wednesday Time Out: 7-Week Breathing Series

One new breathing technique every Wednesday · 7-Day Tracker · Free Starter Guides
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Wednesday Time Out 7-Week Breathing Series

One new breathing technique every Wednesday, building your toolkit week by week. Every week’s practice, 7-day tracker, anchor card and resources live right here. Open a week below.

Week 1: The Breath of FoundationWeek 2: Clearing the StaticWeek 3: The Vagus BrakeWeek 4: Rewiring the LoopWeek 5: Guarding the GateWeek 6: The Still PointWeek 7: The Steady House

Your breath toolkit so far: 4-4-4-4 Box Breath · Belly Breath · Tuning Breath · Count to Nine — two weeks in, two tools down, five to go.

2 Week 2 of 7: Clearing the Static
Tuning Breath + Count to Nine · This week · premieres Wed, Oct 14
🎧 Subscriber episode · 72 minutes with Doug & Angela

Static isn’t a character flaw. It’s a load problem. And load can be lightened.

This week Doug and Angela break down the three kinds of static, what the research says about interruptions and your phone, a brand-new breath most people have never heard of, a guided 2-minute Static Sweep, and an honest lesson on confirming before you conclude.

Try the Tuning Breath free below. Get the whole episode, every week of the series, all bonus episodes and every full companion guide for $4.99/month.

Subscribe & Listen · $4.99/moFree Week 2 Starter Guide · PDF

Try it free: this week adds the Tuning Breath, a counted hum on the exhale that gives your mind one sound to follow.

“Not in the wind. Not in the fire. In the still small voice.”
1 Kings 19:12 · Week 2 Anchor Card
How to do it
  • Tuning Breath: feet planted, shoulders down, jaw loose. Breathe in quietly through your nose. Lips closed, teeth slightly apart, hum a low “mmmm” until the air runs out. Count it: one. Do three. Lost count? Back to one.
  • When to use it: three Tuning Breaths, about 20 seconds, before you open an app, walk into a meeting, or answer a text that made your chest tight. Hum, count to three, then choose.
Your 7-day tracker
Daily practice Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun Mon Tue
3 Tuning Breaths
hum and count
3 belly breaths
keep Week 1 going
Read 1 Kings 19:12
AI Reflection Prompt · copy and paste when your mind feels loud
Act as a calm, honest thinking partner. Don't be a cheerleader and don't diagnose me. I'm doing Week 2 of a 7-week breathing series called Wednesday Time Out, about clearing mental static. Here's everything on my mind right now: [list it all, and mark anything you're assuming with an "A"]. Here's one situation where I might be assuming: [one or two sentences]. Please: (1) sort what I wrote into four columns: Facts, Assumptions, Feelings and Unknowns, and catch any assumption I didn't mark; (2) for the heaviest item, give the evidence for it and against it; (3) offer two other ways to read that situation, including the most generous reasonable one; (4) write one clarifying question I could ask the person involved, under 25 words, so I can confirm before I conclude; (5) name one pattern you notice. If something I wrote is unclear, ask me one question first. Use plain language, under 250 words. Don't just agree with me or reassure me. End with one reflective question for me and one action I can take in the next 24 hours, with a specific when and where. FOLLOW-UP (after you actually ask the question): "Here's what they said: [paste]. What did I get right, what did I get wrong, and what will I do differently next time I start assuming?"
“When you turn the static down, whose voice have you been too busy to hear: God’s, someone who loves you, or your own?”
Question of the week
Go deeper · Week 2 Full Companion Guide

This page is the starter. The full 13-page guide adds:

  • Count to Nine, the breath-counting level-up used in attention research
  • The 2-Minute Static Sweep worksheet: tune in, sweep, plan one, tune out
  • Confirm Before You Conclude: the full Assumption Check worksheet
  • What the research suggests: seven studies on interruptions, attention residue and phone “brain drain”
  • Behavior Follows Architecture™: 7 space changes with a personal planner
  • The full 7-day tracker, daily static log and End-of-Week Review

Spotify subscribers get every companion guide free. Subscribe for $4.99/month to unlock every week of the series and all bonus episodes.

Week 2 resources
▶ Listen to Week 2 on Spotify (subscribers)Free Week 2 Starter Guide · PDFGet the Full Week 2 Guide
1 Week 1 of 7: The Breath of Foundation
Box Breath + Belly Breath · Completed

This week: stress keeps your body stuck in fight-or-flight. Slow, deliberate breathing tells your nervous system it’s safe to settle. Week 1 lays the foundation.

“Be still, and know that I am God.”
Psalm 46:10 · Matthew 7:24 · Week 1 Anchor Card
How to do it
  • 4-4-4-4 Box Breath: in for 4, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4.
  • Belly Breath: in for 4 through the nose, deep into the belly, and out for 6 through the mouth.
  • This week’s practice: three breaths, once a day. Before you check your phone, in the car, or before a hard conversation.
Your 7-day tracker
Daily practice Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun Mon Tue
3 belly breaths
in 4, out 6
Box Breath
one round when stress spikes
Read Psalm 46:10
Go deeper · Week 1 Full Companion Guide

This page is the starter. The full 13-page guide adds:

  • Why Wednesday feels like an emergency: the stress response explained, with a body self-check
  • The research on slow breathing and the 2023 Stanford box-breathing trial
  • The Box Breath and Belly Breath, fully explained
  • Built on the Rock: Psalm 46:10, Matthew 7:24–25 and the Sand vs. Rock reflection
  • Behavior Follows Architecture™ trigger planner and AI Reflection Prompt
  • The full 7-day tracker, daily log and End-of-Week Review

Spotify subscribers get every companion guide free. Subscribe for $4.99/month to unlock every week of the series and all bonus episodes.

Week 1 resources
▶ Listen to Week 1 on SpotifyFree Week 1 Starter Guide · PDFGet the Full Week 1 Guide
3Week 3 of 7: The Vagus Brake
🔒 Unlocks Wednesday, Oct 21
4Week 4 of 7: Rewiring the Loop
🔒 Unlocks Wednesday, Oct 28
5Week 5 of 7: Guarding the Gate
🔒 Unlocks Wednesday, Nov 4
6Week 6 of 7: The Still Point
🔒 Unlocks Wednesday, Nov 11
7Week 7 of 7: The Steady House
🔒 Unlocks Wednesday, Nov 18
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Tip: checkmarks don’t save when you leave the page. Print it (Ctrl/Cmd + P) to keep a paper copy of your week. Wellness practice, not medical advice. If you feel lightheaded, return to normal breathing.
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